There are numerous ways to make a memorable entrance at a semi-formal holiday party. This could include a work-related event at an elegant venue like a library, art museum or sit-down dinner or attending a fundraiser gala or ball.
AVOID “TOO MUCH”
Instead of solely relying on a dashing date, which we’re certainly not opposed to, try avoiding these common mistakes.
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- Too sexy. In general, a little sexy is great but too much skin in tight fabric is too much. If you are still working to perfect feeling sexy without looking like you’re ready to jump the next thing that walks by, err on the conservative side.
- Too shiny/sparkly. Don’t get me wrong here. We *love* sparkle! But when it’s ALL we see, it can be a bit much. When in doubt, throw a top layer over all that shine and sparkle to tone things down.
- Too much going on. On the clothing design shows, we appreciate when the judges encourage the designers to simplify. When there are ruffles AND sequins AND prints, it’s too much to process and we lose sight of you.
- Too matronly or cheap. With some special occasion outfits, matronly and cheap-looking go hand-in-hand because they are overworked, tired styles and/or made out of fabric that will snag every time you sneeze. Be conscious of hemlines (above the knee is perfect for cocktail parties) and opt for a modern style.
- Too much holiday cheer. Overt holiday prints, jewelry and embellishments do not belong at semi-formal parties. Period.
And now for outfit ideas that will beckon event photographers and have people talking all the way home…
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These ensembles – including looks for Plus, Petite & men – ooze sophistication. From left to right:
- Nothing says sophistication like a navy dress (Tadashi, Nordstrom, $398). The fitted top paired with a flowing skirt is heavenly. A delicate necklace with a pop of color (Endless, $85) adds a touch of exotic while bringing attention to your face. A blue-themed beaded clutch (Endless, $228) adds depth to your color choice and a gold-accented shoe (Endless, $139.95) ties in with the other accessories.
- This Plus sized chiffon dress (Tadashi, Bloomingdales, $328) is cut beautifully and gives off a statuesque appeal. A shiny bauble necklace (Talbots, $89) in grey will add dimension to the color story, as will a rufflicious lavender clutch (Endless, $108). A sparkly grey shoe with a feathery flair (Endless, $125) completes the look.
- A rich dress with a low-contrast jacquard pattern (Talbots, $189) is just what the holidays ordered for Petites. Pair it with a beaded necklace (Talbots, $129) that picks up colors from the dress with added shine. A gorgeous Christopher Straub Petals Clutch (Christopher Straub, $130) and a suede pump with metallic and velvet trim (Talbots, $169) will have you strutting like the models of Project Runway.
- Every man should own a suit. A classic navy suit (Michael Kors, Macy’s, $225) is the most versatile and fits in perfectly at a party. Pair it with a white shirt, an elegant tie with a hint of navy and mix it up with a burgundy dress shoe (Johnston & Murphy, Macy’s, $125).
Invest in one or a few of these pieces and you will be set for 2010 as well as many parties to come.
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Sasha Noud Westin, Owner